Ways on How to Identify Controlling Clients in the Escort Industry
It is an unavoidable experience where a sex worker is booked by a male client who has a manipulative personality. Despite her best efforts in avoiding such type of client, it will really come to a point in her career to cater a client with a negative attitude. When you are an escort, always anticipate that you will be hired not by all good, loving and generous men, but also those who are controlling and pretentious. As a girl working in the escorting industry, you should be able to detect which client is good or not. By doing this, you will know what steps to do during the encounter, so that you cannot let him push you to your limitations.
If you are a newbie in the escort service industry and you do not have any idea about the types of clients you can possible deal with, then you better read on some of the ways to identify and handle clients who are manipulative before serious troubles arise:
1. Manipulative clients frequently hire multiple appointments with one escort on a weekly basis: This is not the most common indication that a client has a controlling attitude. However, this will still show how controlling he can be on the following encounters you will have with him. Although some clients are just excited to get an escort’s attention. Manipulative clients who want to take in-charge of your life will take advantage with the frequent visits he has with you. He will try to find for ways to know more information about you, as well as your personal life. He will try to get close to you and eventually will get in the way with your personal decisions. In addition to this, with the multiple bookings he has with you, he limits your encounters with other clients, thus making you look exclusively his. Do not let him draw you out from your other clients.
2. A client who is too devoured with talking about his probable jealousy with your other clients: This can also be true when a client shows potential jealousy with an escort’s real-life partner. This is a clear indication that your client is manipulative. It is just normal for clients to think that you are the perfect woman in the world, because you can satisfy all his desires and fantasies in bed. However, it is not normal for a client to think that an escort can spend the rest of her life with him. That is another story. If your client keeps on discussing about his jealousy on your other clients or his envy of your personal romantic relationship, then you should make them realize that your encounter with him is just purely business. Sometimes, this kind of client will keep on insisting that they want you exclusively. But do your best effort to let him feel that you do are not up to this kind of relationship and it is just purely business.
3. A client with a court record of physical abuse or sexual assault is a threat: As an escort, you should take precautions once you have the knowledge that your client has a criminal record, especially when it is leaned towards physical abuse or sexual assault. Although the incident may have been a misunderstanding as your client explains it to you, be reminded that your client was still arrested for some kind of disagreement. These kinds of disagreements frequently evolve around manipulation or insufficiency of it. Make sure to appropriately screen your male clients before approving their bookings with you. Research your client’s background and that includes all possible public records he may have.
4. A client who manages physical and rough treatment: If you have this kind of client, then you may be in trouble. Usually, this client will push you down to bed or grabs your arm whenever there is a disagreement between the two of you. This will show that your client is not full of
kindness and nobility. Although your client apologizes for the bruises, it is not good to forget about the whole incident. Under any circumstances, you should not tolerate a client who injures you in any possible way. But be very careful when you give out your reactions to your client, because he may also react negatively to this and further give you more bruises.
5. It is normal for a manipulative client to exhibit quick infatuation with an escort: Once a client is infatuated with an escort, he will shower her with gifts on the first few encounters. Later on, he will demonstrate manipulative qualities towards the escort. This type of client easily fall in love, but this is actually a form of lust. He will create a fantasy dialogue in their heads, thus he may envision your encounter as the reality. He may put you in a very difficult position where you will also have difficulty in bringing back how things used to be. You can attempt to resist to their fantasies, which will cause them discomfort and anxiety. But be very careful in giving that resistance.
6. A client who recommends that you reduce the number of clients: This is his way of manipulating you, because he wants you as his own personal escort gradually. This is one of the first signs that a client is manipulative. Once an escort meets up this type of client, then it is wise for her to back away from this client to avoid further troubles. This client may think that your professional relationship is something even more and he may expect something from you in return. If he wants or asks you to reduce the number of clients you have, then this is a clear indication that he only wants you for himself. He wants to save all of you only to him. He may also ask you to stop communicating with other men even though they are not your clients.